A good celebrity is hard to find
The black-and-white nature of cancel culture is not conducive to real accountability and change
February 16, 2023
Editor’s Note: Since this article was published, new information has come to light about the topics mentioned within it. Old Gold & Black policy dictates that we do not revise articles except for factual or mechanical error. In light of this, this article has been updated with a note from its author addressing new developments.
When I first wrote this article in early February, I had a much different understanding of the Callaghan situation than I do now. When I described his actions as “morally reprehensible” and a “widespread, serious issue,” I did not know about the two rape allegations recently reported by The Stranger, nor was I fully aware of the extent of his sex-pest behavior. While I have always believed his accusers, I did not go far enough in condemning his actions due to an ignorance of the events. Looking back on the article, I worry that it can be misconstrued as a defense of Callaghan, although this certainly was never the intention. I was not trying to argue that Callaghan should not be “canceled” because his actions weren’t deserving of cancellation, but because I am not sure that cancellation is as effective as people have made it out to be. I worry that canceling celebrities does little in the way of making them better themselves or working toward resolving the wrongs they have committed. I have little in the way of answers when it comes to these complex issues, I was merely attempting to encourage people to think about the effectiveness of cancel culture.
To clarify my previous writing, what Callaghan did was vile and cruel, and I should have made that more explicit at first. I regret attempting to create a distinction between Callaghan and other notable rapists of the past, because even if there is a difference, it is likely trivial.
The article, as published on Feb. 16, 2023, is below:
I watched Andrew Callaghan’s HBO special “This Place Rules” more out of excitement to see Callaghan’s work on the big screen than any curiosity regarding the events of Jan. 6, 2021. If you are one of the millions of people who have watched his videos on his YouTube channel “All Gas, No Breaks” or his latest project, “Channel 5,” then you know that Callaghan is a revelation in American journalism. Callaghan’s low-budget, minimal-editing style compliments his ability to infiltrate spaces and conduct interviews without the weight or tension that a typical news broadcast carries. His meteoric rise to fame is symptomatic of the mainstream media’s total failure to give anything genuine to the American public, but lately, his own integrity has been called into question.
On the surface, Callaghan’s work is a hilariously entertaining exposé of some of the strangest niches in the United States today. He visits places like flat-earth conferences and the Talladega Superspeedway, and the people featured are often conservative or libertarian-leaning, extremely wild and flamboyantly outspoken. It’s funny stuff. But the real power underlying Callaghan’s recent content is the crucial reminder that the people that our echo chambers teach us to hate, pity or avoid altogether are often filled with the same good intentions that we are, however misinformed or misguided they might appear to be.
It is a beautiful, radical attempt at empathy, and it seems to me like the only viable path toward an America that feels less divisive. Before we can begin to take one another’s ideas seriously again, we must first (re)learn to take each other seriously. If you dodge the sort of metaphysical/hyperreality questions that arise within all works of a documentary, Callaghan gives you a practically unfiltered glimpse into the lives of people you would never otherwise know, and the result is oftentimes surprisingly endearing.
I have to admit that when I heard about the sexual assault allegations against Callaghan, I felt pierced in a unique way. Normally, whenever I hear about someone getting canceled, the person is someone that I already don’t believe in. Either I’m not surprised, or I don’t care because they’re not my problem, anyway.
Our generation has been thoroughly trained on how to deal with these cancellations. We talk about them all the time because celebrity culture has a knack for making us feel less alone and more important than we really are. When we find out that J.K. Rowling isn’t too keen on trans folks or Mark Wahlberg is sort of unfriendly toward Black people, we know exactly how to pause for a moment and regain our composure before laughing at their expense on the Internet. The only material change witnessed is that we may not log “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” on our Goodreads whenever we finish it.
But I think that the Callaghan situation could be different — at least in the left-leaning social circles that drive our national conversations surrounding consent, sexual abuse and coercion. Callaghan’s case lacks the simplicity that most “Me Too” scenarios have going for them. Callaghan is not a filthy rich executive or a bigot — he’s not even all that famous or powerful. He’s not only someone that people have been rooting for, but he’s also a figure that has personally resonated with fans. Furthermore, his actions don’t come across as vile and cruel in the same way that high-profile rape cases have. He is accused of being a “sex pest” — of coercing women and breaking them down until they finally “give” him “consent” — and multiple women have reported him as being creepy, with some accounts of him following and stalking women who were trying to evade him. While his actions are still morally reprehensible, it’s much easier to find the humanity in someone like Callaghan than in someone like Kevin Spacey or Harvey Weinstein.
Herein lies the true test of the “believe all women” mantra that we’ve grown accustomed to hearing, because these nuanced cases cause problems when they are processed with the same black-and-white perspective that we normally employ.
What I’m asking is, what does it mean when we say that we believe Callaghan’s accusers? Right now, there seems to be only two responses to events such as these — either you uniformly condemn the perpetrator, or you stand by them, sometimes claiming that the allegations are false. What emerges is this weird phenomenon in which morally ambiguous to morally depraved characters are demonized on the surface but still accepted and even celebrated at a micro, personal level. What’s troubling about this dynamic is that these people — because they are still financially lucrative — never need to take accountability for their actions or change as people.
So not only is cancel culture often non compos mentis, but it also doesn’t work. It didn’t stop Donald Trump from lying, and it didn’t stop Kanye West from spreading antisemitism. While the “Me Too” movement was crucial in galvanizing discourse nationwide, the strain of cancel culture that emerged from it doesn’t have the capacity to withstand the test of time — for a couple of reasons.
As celebrity cancellations continue, they lose their emotional effect in the same way mass shootings have become just another news segment in our American minds — one that’s not about the victims but the politics surrounding it. Also, as time goes on, more and more accusations turn out to be false. Rex Orange County is only the latest in an ever-growing list of high-profile individuals to be accused and then vindicated of sexual assault. We’re getting to a point where we are spending more time reflecting on the anxieties of males who fear being falsely accused of sexual assault than we are spending time educating young people on the right and wrong ways to go about sexual encounters.
Maybe with Callaghan we can start to look at these seemingly infinitely complex situations in a new light. My hope is that people can look at the large number of allegations levied against Callaghan and decide that we should believe those women and that we should recognize his behavior as a widespread, serious issue. I also hope that people can look at the situation and recognize that unilateral demonization might not be the best route. That relegating someone with a significant platform into a sphere in which they are encouraged to amplify the most troubling aspects of themself is reckless and harmful. That there’s something wrong with a culture that doesn’t subscribe to redemption or the idea that deep down all people have this beautiful, amazing capability to be good. I don’t see why we can’t hold all of these axioms in our minds at the same time and truly believe them.
We’re situated in a strange time when it comes to celebrity culture. Every day, it seems like we watch real people transform into symbolic placeholders before our very eyes. Political candidates feel airbrushed and humanoid, and movie stars seem so distant that you wonder whether they’ve ever stepped outside of Beverly Hills.
This makes celebrity scandals all the more entertaining and attractive when they do break. It’s gratifying to see those we have put on pedestals fall to our level and be reminded of their humanity. Spectators find themselves spewing inconsequential hate because they have been allowed to misrecognize a fellow human as a piece of narrative.
Of course, this isn’t healthy. For anyone. So it might be worthwhile to recognize just how much power we hold when it comes to giving people a platform and a following. Sometimes the most valiant thing we can do is look away because people do, after all, tend to act differently in the limelight.
Correction Feb. 23, 2023: Due to an error with Google Docs, three paragraphs were incorrectly added into the final piece.
Cotton Hill • Mar 11, 2023 at 4:05 pm
Your article didn’t age well – just thirteen days later more allegations against Callaghan surfaced in an actual newsrag, and they were graphic descriptions of violent rape. Look it up in The Stranger from March 1.
Mary • Feb 26, 2023 at 2:42 am
He is a rapist. Andrew had the opportunity at redeption. His first victim confronted him back in 2021. He should have given her an apology. And his second victim wanted an apology, she ended up getting assulted. He ignored every chance! He deserves more scruity
Bob • Feb 18, 2023 at 8:12 pm
Bro, he didn’t deny the allegations. That means he admitted to literally sticking his hands down the pants of a girl loudly saying no, then refused to leave her car while laughing and asking her to suck him off. That’s the allegation.
So I’m all for general rehabilitation, but it has to come after actual consequences. The consequence for sexual assault is criminal charges and potentially jail. Not sending out a half ass apology (he didn’t actually directly say sorry once) then just getting to go back to his career.
I also loved Andrew’s content, he and his team were doing something truly unique and needed. I don’t think anyone will be able to replace him, and that’s genuinely a loss. But that loss is on him for being a rapey creep.
Also there have been a number of other allegations, and ones surfacing from years ago. Whether or not they’re all real, it certainly suggests a pattern. With all of this, I think the real comedy is a bunch of VERY liberal voices who (rightly) slammed Louis CK, Weinstein, etc. are bending over backwards to explain how Andrew isn’t fully culpable “bc society”.
Whit Jr. • Feb 18, 2023 at 6:59 pm
Sorry to say I’d never heard of Callaghan but I quickly caught up after reading your column, and watched several of his videos. Thoughtful, affable guy. You could believe he loves everybody. A congenial hit magnet with the crowd and yet when it comes to One Woman next to him in a car—a jerk. He could be a porn addict; however, in view of his broad sympathies it’s just as possible his humanity got out of hand. I really wish his two accusers had been more understanding of his dilemma and quietly worked with him to ameliorate these problems. He seems genuinely sorry for his mistake. Meantime, staying out of the limelight for a while may not be an altogether bad thing—especially if it helps him to realistically balance his obligations to his fan base (the culture) vs. the One Woman, including her pilgrim soul.
David Robbins • Feb 16, 2023 at 2:12 pm
Great article, I feel so badly for both the women involved and for the potential for good that was lost by Andrew’s cancellation.
Our society today is not so good at nuance and loves to be riled up at imagined bad guys. I posed a question recently that was met with outrage, “How much good must someone do to outweigh something bad they’ve also done?”.
I’m heartbroken because Channel 5 brought people together regardless of their normal echo chambers. Empathy about “the other” is something this country desperately needs, and this platform is at threat of being demolished both by Andrew’s actions and the reactions to them.
These two lines really resonated with me:
“My hope is that people can look at the large number of allegations levied against Callaghan and decide that we should believe those women and that we should recognize his behavior as a widespread, serious issue.”
I hope that we don’t look at Andrew and singularly blame him for his actions. I hope that we are brave enough to introspect about our culture and empathetically teach lonely young men proper behavior and an understanding of consent, and that they are not worthless for not being promiscuous.
“That there’s something wrong with a culture that doesn’t subscribe to redemption or the idea that deep down all people have this beautiful, amazing capability to be good.”
There’s a certain irony that the people most viciously condemning men like Andrew are also the ones who push most strongly for prison reform, re-education, personal therapy, and a softer society.
And there’s a frightening darkness about denying the potential for personal redemption. If you believe you have no hope and no future, what is the reason to live? Without forgiveness, it is so easy to hate others and oneself for the most minute reasons.
But redemption should not be free, and it requires responsibility and sincere repentance. It should be hard and a lifelong commitment relative to one’s “sins”. Pain is necessary for growth, love begets love, and hate begets hate.
It’s a careful line for someone like Andrew since he has a large platform, and my hope is he leverages that influence for something larger than himself.