The Kennedy family has been nothing short of the hottest topic this month, thanks to the new Ryan Murphy Hulu show, “Love Story,” which follows the lives of John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette. The show gives viewers a look into the zeitgeist of 1990s New York and offers a dramatized interpretation of the couple’s relationship. It has blown up on TikTok, especially as a source of fashion inspiration, drawing from Carolyn’s embodiment of 90s minimalism and JFK Jr.’s preppy—casual street style. 

While their fashion sense was iconic in its own right, there’s more to take from the couple’s stories—and particularly from Carolyn Bessette Kennedy’s. 

Kennedy’s style is inspiring, but not just because of the pieces she wore. What makes Carolyn Bessette Kennedy’s look truly enduring is that she dressed for herself, not for trends. Timeless, basic and classy pieces — Birkin bags, Prada coats, stunning Yamamoto designs — were all well-tailored yet versatile, effortlessly fitting into her wardrobe. She returned again and again to staple pieces that feel attainable for everyone, like white button-ups, statement coats, black tanks and Levi’s. From her early days at Calvin Klein to her last years, Kennedy stuck to what looked best on her and felt comfortable rather than chasing whatever the season promoted. 

In truth, we don’t know much about Kennedy, due to conflicting media narratives and her tendency towards reservation in the public eye. From readings and videos, however, she appears to have been kind, savvy, charismatic and authentic. Her distinct style, while wildly admired, was arguably the least interesting thing about her. 

Today, our culture is different. Microtrends come and go, and fast fashion clings to each viral theme of the season. I open TikTok to see posts like “Guys, can we collectively bring this [fashion trend] back?” While I find such posts amusing, they raise a question for me: Why can’t you wear those low-rise, embellished capris or skinny jeans reminiscent of 2016? 

Carolyn remains a steadfast fashion icon decades after her death because she was unapologetically herself. It also helped that she seemed to be a genuine and friendly person. She carried herself with poise and charisma, which exuded through her clothing. Her fashion didn’t need to be flashy to be influential. She wore the clothes; they didn’t wear her.

So, the next time you’re hung up on an outfit, consider taking a page from Carolyn Bessette Kennedy’s book.